Our Art of Foreplay

Dusty

I LOVE FOREPLAY.  I live for 69'ing, blowjobs, massaging, candlelight showers and most of all...going down on Elle!  Besides the previously mentioned "normal" foreplay we have a few things we do on our own.

 

 Since we've had the kid(s) there are times when it's just not appropriate or you're flat out too damn tired to hump and bump for long stretches. Try working 15 hours after being up every hour and a half (feedings and rockings), coming home to a blur of activity and a wife who's just as frustrated...Believe me, I was/am one of those guys that maintains that I am down to go deep "any time, any place" (being the dumbass that I am I will always strive to uphold this). There has been more than one occasion where despite our best efforts we get rock hard and sopping wet, then fall asleep. Wake up a few hours later from a coma with a half-stock and dripping wondering what the hell happened.  So questions come up about how to maintain "quickness" on those occasions that require some speed, and then our favorite moves when we get to go long and smooth.

A lot of times the old "get it in and get it done" just doesn't do it for me.  I love to go long and deep.  But most nights between feedings it's a quick fingerbang, some licking for slicking it up and away we go.  Quickie's are pretty self explanatory.  When we have the time though, I like to think we do it right.  Like Elle says a long conversation always seems to get her dripping.  We enjoy playing games together and since these days we cant really leave the kids and go play some midnight basketball or something of the like, we get into video games, baking, cleaning, sometimes board games (all of these naked)...but most often we go for naked dominoes.  Candlelight, clothesless, competitive.  Lots of teasing and fun.  There you go....our foreplay secret weapon...DOMINOES.  To each his own.

Elle
A lot of times I'm down with a long heart to heart convo to catch up on what we are thinking about everything. Good deep conversations turn into long deep sessions of love making. Then there is naked dominoes, card games, cooking, etc. Heck we get naked just watching tv together on the couch. We cuddle and more then every once in a while we mess with each other. Obviously if we cook naked, you have to be careful of what is getting too close to the stove. We enjoy it. It a little tease here and there. I like to do a little grind on him when I bend down to get something out of the fridge. Dominoes is a favorite for us right now. If we have time it's fun to strip down to nothing and watch each other while playing. We also work on our blog naked. Reading about sex and writing about it works to get worked up.

Hmmm.. Anyone have more things to do/try while naked (besides the obvious sex, sleep, and shower)?