Soft Core

We all love to bang it out.  But an equal amount of the time Elle and I love to go long and slow.  In the words of Tenacious D "you don't always have to fuck her hard, in fact sometimes that's not right to do.  Sometimes you got to make some love and fuckin give her some smooches too."

Here's a bit of our "softer" side.

 

 

Basix Jelly Egg Vibrator

Adam and Eve Butterfly Kiss

Spontaneity

Gosh I was just thinking how great it would be to be able to have some time to use some toys to myself. Dusty is fun to play with too, but sometimes a little afternoon delight with me, myself, and vibe is fun too. The deal though is, I must plan. With kids and lots of things to get done through out the day time is never on my side. I feel like planning a little vibe time into my schedule is a little weird. I feel like vibrator time should be more spontaneous. Heck sex seems like it should be more of a spontaneous thing.

Music Sex

Remember our Sex Music post?  Well, being that Dusty is a musician we make music sex.  Dusty got to strumming and look where it took us.  Just us and a guitar, then some serious strumming.

Is This Dick Normal?

Alright!  Let's tackle it.  I guess this kind of goes with our Insecurities post but we will flesh this out a little more. This also is pretty in line with the Make Love Not Porn idea. 

Dusty

Porn stars both male and female are gorgeous, ripped, well endowed with both chest balloons or crotch rods (sometimes both), tanned, shaved, manicured and tons of other "perfect" attributes.  Well ladies and gentlemen...I ain't a porn star.  I am a hairy, not so solid, slightly above averagely endowed, non acrobatic, non gymnastic, a little nerdy, sweaty, American male.  I don't shave my chest, certainly don't shave my arms and there's not enough wax, shaving cream or razors in the world to shave my legs and crack.  I am not bleaching shit when it comes to my body.  Oh yea, I have a snow white tan from my balls to my waist. 

Preview

Here is something that I put together of some pictures Dusty took of me. I was just having some fun with it and wanted to share. I hope everyone enjoys. I know I enjoyed teasing the shit out of Dusty.

-Elle

Sex After Baby

Baby's needs are first. But the moment he falls asleep, we get to spending time together. It isn't always about the sex, more about being with each other, talking, touching. Sex is more of a large bonus. We'll run it through for you all.

Our Art of Foreplay

Dusty

I LOVE FOREPLAY.  I live for 69'ing, blowjobs, massaging, candlelight showers and most of all...going down on Elle!  Besides the previously mentioned "normal" foreplay we have a few things we do on our own.

Body after baby and sex

After giving birth, I felt fat. It wasn't pregnancy fat, more like hanging fat from all parts of my body. I didn't have a pregnancy belly to show off or hide behind. It sucked, all the clothes I wore during pregnancy were too big or didn't fit right. And all the clothes I wore before pregnancy were still to small. I felt disgusting. I was now in pain while sitting down, my breasts were sore from breast feeding and pumping. I had stretch marks running on my thighs, hips, boobs, and stomach. My belly button was sore from being stretched so far while pregnant and then popped back after giving birth. Yikes with this list of issues, how could Dusty still want to look at me naked? I felt gross and it was hard to come to terms with my new look. I was still in no shape to have my boobs bouncing while I run, and god forbid my floppy fresh after birth crotch fall loose while I run! Yikes I just wanted to look and FEEL sexy for my husband. The only way I could do that was to figure out how I truly felt about me and come up with a plan.

Sex Music

What's your favorite sex music?  We want to know what your favorite boning and moaning music is. Comment or write and tell us.

Elle
So I support the whole music thing Dusty has going on. It adds to our sexual encounters, but I don't feel the need to spend a lot of time focusing on the perfect music. I will admit that I may just be lazy since I know Dusty is picking up the slack and I do not have a problem with it.  I have noticed how I tend to get close to the beat of the music while I am riding. I guess that means it helps so we can get in a better rhythm if our natural rhythm is out of sync. I do recall one time we were banging it out, HARD, I mean our bodies were slapping together almost as loud as the music. When we finished, Dusty pointed out the music we were listening to. We had been listening to heavier rock, not smooth or slow. He has a point on the music...it really does affect us.

Dusty
I am a music lover.  I'm attached to my Ipod, there's never a time when I don't have music on.  So sufficed to say that I am eclectic and all over the spectrum when it comes to tunes.  However, I do love me some R&B, I love that shit.  Just hearing some smooth voice with reverb guitar or low deliberate beat and I'm seduced...I don't know how it doesn't affect other people.  Music influences my every mood and thought.  It's important what comes on while I'm inside or on top of Elle...I don't want to go from Rico Suave to the Hulk in three seconds. 

Quick Pics

My dick, her boobs.  

 

Clothes

Elle
 

Neither of us likes to wear clothes in the house. Before we had kids we never wore clothes unless it was a towel, lingerie, or underwear. As soon as we would walk in the door, a trail of clothes would be falling behind us. It didn’t mean we were always jumping each other’s bones. Of course we both would have loved that and we did a lot of times too, but as everyone knows, life happens. This post is about clothes or the lack there of. So let’s get back to that.

Turn Ons: Before We Get Under the Covers

Everyone (hopefully) gets into foreplay and we'll get into our little routines, but not many people focus on the "soft" stuff.  The things that first attracted us to each other.  The things that after all our time together still get our nethers ready for necking.  This is what works for us...

Insecurities

Hello all, Dusty here,

When thinking about posting pictures of myself online I was not too keen at first.  Most people think that women have more prevalent body issues but in our case, it's me!

Starting Off

Hello!

Welcome to our blog.  Let us introduce ourselves...we are a twenty something married couple who just happen to be parents.  Since we first started on our train to pound town we found that we were a bit overactive in the sex department.  Even after a couple years, we still can't help ourselves...and we don't intend to stop.  Being athletes we find this beneficial in about a thousand different ways hence, we created a blog to document our journey.The pictures will be mostly of us, with perhaps a random filler in there for good measure. 

Candlelight Voyeur

We were wondering if we should perhaps start a section just for our own personal stories...a bit of erotica from our lives.  We figured this would be a good place to also put any videos or pictures that don't reallyfit into out other pages.  Mostly stories though.  With that, we launch the Smut Bungalow!  Have your own stories?  Send them in at subtlecravings@gmail.com or @subtlecravings. 

Guest Post Intro

On this page we hope to have established writers share their experience, stories and other media.

Welcome to Our Sex Toys

We will be reviewing our sex toys and sharing our thoughts. 

Sex and Marriage After Baby

We will be writing more about our experiences with sex and marriage after baby and/or babies. We are excited to share our own thoughts, and we would love to hear from everyone else.

Submissions

This page is for all the readers who want to post pictures, videos, short stories or general posts.  Send them to us at subtlecravings@gmail.com.  Also follow us on Twitter @subtlecravings

Welcome

Hello and Welcome to our page.  Feel free to email us questions or suggestions to subtlecravings@gmail.com.

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